Healing After an Affair
|“The grass maybe greener on the other side of the fence but you still have to mow it.” – Proverb
“Forgiveness defines who you are, it does not redefine the other wrongdoing as right.” – Tibbits
We enter intimate relationship blindly. We idealize our partner and truly believe that we found a special person who will be our partner, our best friend our unselfish lover, our supporter and cheer-leader. This person, we believe, will never ever hurt us but always always put our interest first. The affair shocks us into reality. It inflicts a deep wounding on the sanctity of our relationship. Can we heal from an affair?
Are you a couples who are trying to rebuild your relationship after an affair?
Are you feeling overwhelmed by feelings of anger, disbelief, fear shame after learning about the affair infidelity?
Do you wonder if and how will you ever trust again?
Are you in the process of deciding if you want to stay or go?
Do you wonder if you can ever trust again?
Are you struggling with how to deal with the feeling of “I love but am not in love any more?
How can you be sure that affair infidelity will not happen again?
Once trust is broken, can we ever get it back? How can we overcome our profound hurt and stay together? How can we heal after an affair infidelity?
Reasons for infidelity are often complex. It is crucial to get to the bottom of the triggers of this behavior in order to insure saving the relationship after an affair. While it is possible that infidelity is caused by the individual’s personality characteristic, it is often connected to a larger relational dynamic.
YOU CAME TO THE RIGHT PLACE! HEALING AFTER AN AFFAIR INFIDELITY IS POSSIBLE!
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Affair infidelity can take different forms:
Sexual infidelity happens when one partner engages in sexual intimacies with another individual outside the committed relationship. It can be an one time experience or multiple times.
Emotional affair infidelity happens when one partner is sharing deep intimate thoughts and feelings with another person rather than with his her partner.
An affair is also occurring when one partner insists on engaging in any activity despite the pain and anguish it causes to the partner.
Couple Therapy to heal after infidelity affair will help you and guide you through the process of healing and forgiveness. You will learn new skills of communication, recognize unproductive relational patterns of distancing and avoidance. We will support, coach helped you to work through through your pain, your anger, shame and guilt, and move into a conscious relationship based on truth, safety, honest communication, and deep connection. You can commit to attend weekly sessions in addition to individual sessions focused on identifying old patterns and learning new skills.
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Despite that deep hurt, anger, loss of trust and shame associated with an affair, many couples experience a desire to give their relationship a second chance. Many couples are able, with the help of therapy, to recover from infidelity and can develop a relationship with more intimacy and closeness. Many couples shared that the trauma of the infidelity affair provided the necessary opportunity for each one of them to work through unresolved psychological issues that effected their marriage. They speak of gaining important relationship skills and that their communication is markedly more honest and intimate.
SOMETIMES SAYING “I AM SORRY” IS NOT ENOUGH. SOMETIMES YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO CHANGE.
We will support and help you figure out whether your future is better healing your relationship after the affair or whether you will be better moving on.
We can help you!
Therapy is for couples who are committed to staying together despite the deep wounding from an affair. They have the will to face the difficult truth about their relationship, and about themselves and their part in contributing to the relationship crisis.
- Gain understanding of what went wrong and why
- Recognize relational patterns responsible for creating disconnection
- Work through the mourning of the loss of what you thought your relationship was
- Work through your intense angry feelings and learn how to become the healer of each other
- Engage in affective communication and establish honesty in sharing feelings and thoughts
- Re-establish your trust
- Re-romanticizing your relationship
- Address sexual dissatisfaction and create a renewed passionate intimacy
- Develop a new relationship mission statement and renew your vows
Offices in Boca Raton and Boynton Beach
Therapy available in Hebrew – יעוץ בעברית
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